Stunned, Shamed, Thankful, and Finally… Helpful
From News for Swim Parents
Published by The American Swimming Coaches Association
5101 NW 21 Ave., Suite 200
Fort Lauderdale FL 33309
[Editors note: a letter from a club’s newsletter]
My Fellow Parents:
The word “ignoramus “ comes to mind, but then I realized I wasn't sure
what an ignoramus was. After consulting Webster’s, I confirmed
that I was one. You see an ignoramus is a person who simply
doesn't know.
My wife and girls have been involved with the team for almost two years.
With all their coming and going, I occasionally found myself tagging
along, usually reluctantly, timing a race, helping out at the snack bar
for a few hours, but not much else. It wasn't until our last home
meet when I offered to help cook at the concession stand and do some
prep work Friday night before the meet, that I realized how much of an
ignoramus I really was.
I was amazed at how much work went into simply setting up the concession
stand, and the shade areas for timers and judges. That night I got
home at 10:30 p.m. After the meet on Sunday, all the stuff that
got set up had to come down. I spent at least 3 more hours helping
there as well as all day cooking and selling at the concessions.
That weekend left me stunned, shamed, and thankful all at once.
Stunned because of the tremendous amount of man hours required to put on
an event like that. Shamed, because where was I in the past when a
dedicated few could have used some help to shoulder the load? I
was also thankful for these people who were fun to work with and who had
quietly and diligently served my children those past two years.
Well those of you who were like me, you can't be an ignoramus anymore
because I just blew your cover. Maybe you'd like to come along at
our next home meet and pitch in? There'll be plenty to do and
there's a chance we could have some fun doing it.





